Wednesday, September 20, 2006

Please let me vent.

This is going to be a really good one for all of my fellow JWA girls.

So, yesterday I'm at work and LH comes in. She is over at It's a girl thing and sees a flyer for JWA's Kitchen Tours and inquires to Jo about it. Jo says that she isn't sure of the details, but to ask me because I'm in JWA. So, LH walks over and says "Cerella! Are you in JWA???" I say yes and then she says "Cerella!!!!!!!" ....like shame on you....and that there is something WRONG with being in this organization. LH asks a few questions about the flyer and then walks back over to the other store. So now, I'm sitting there thinking WTF?!?!?!

What kind of question/comment was that!?!?

I decide to ask her. I walk over to Jo's store and ask LH "What's wrong with being in JWA?" She replies very hesitantly that I just don't seem to be the "kind of person" who would be in JWA. To which I reply....."Well.......I'm in it." Hmmm....at first I thought that the meaning of her comment was that I am somehow too good for JWA, it turns out that in LH's opinion, I am NOT good enough for it.
That's too bad.
Especially since she isn't even IN the organization. I would really like a description of what "kind of person" SHOULD be in JWA. I mean, it is a volunteer organization. By that comment does she mean that I am a selfish person who doesn't like to see good things happen in my community? I was BORN & RAISED here! Why WOULDN'T I want to see good things happen in my hometown? And if I am able to help, why wouldn't I??? I have met some of the most WONDERFUL women in JWA that I probably wouldn't have met otherwise.

How rude/hurtful/disdainful of her! And this wasn't said to me in private. Jo had 2 customers standing right next to us when she said this. The thing that really gets me is that I know of other comments that she has made about me in the past ie........ "lazy slug" / "ditz" / "airhead" and "not the brightest" are only a few. However, I really have tried to put the past behind me and let by-gones be by-gones. How do I continue to do this with LH when it is apparent that she will never stop saying negative things about me and TO ME? She is not someone who's opinion I value at all. So why do I let her comments hurt me soo much?

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

LH is such a bitch. I have NEVER liked her. She walks like a penguin and her girls have the buckest names ever! She "thinks" she is some powerful high and mighty country club member. She will always be a bitch...I have some names to call her too...bitch is just one of the many!

Cerella said...

Whoa, don't hold back Beth. Tell us how you REALLY feel! haha

Adrienne said...

WHO the hell is LH? Is she part of the "HIGH SOCIETY"?

Bellasera said...
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Anonymous said...

ONE THING I HAVE TO SAY IS I AM SURE GLAD BREAHNA RUBBED DOG SHIT IN HER WHITE CARPET WITH A BIG WHEEL!!!!!

Anonymous said...

LORD FORGIVE ME BUT DON'T BE MESSIN WITH MY FAM!!!

purl*e*white said...

Whoa dang, just add this to the list for LH. That lady (I'll use that term loosely) was born a bitch. She was a bitch 10 years ago when she stiffed you for babysitting and she's still a bitch today. Let's just have a laugh at her dumbass(just like I have at many of my cousins' sporting events) and be glad we're not related to that shit. Can you imagine having a mother like that, let's be thankful also that she's not in JWA trying to spread her "wisdom"!

Anonymous said...

LH is a F****** B**** and shes more than likely going to burn in hell for getting an abortion. its really all about karma and she is most definately not putting out any good in the world. But on the other hand....we should feel a little bad for how ugly she is.

Cerella said...

Wow, I had no idea how much all of you would have my back! You are the best!!!!!

Poppy said...

She secretly knows how absolutely awesome and brilliant you are, and her inferiority complex forces her to degrade you in order to make herself feel better. Whenever she does this open your eyes really wide, twirl your finger near your ear, and proclaim quite loudly, "CUCKOO!" She'll catch on. Or, she'll burn in her Hell as the others have suggested.